How do I tell my best friend I’ve fallen in love with her?
The article discusses how to approach telling a best friend about deeper feelings of love. The advice columnists suggest being subtle and gauging the friend's reaction before fully expressing these feelings. They emphasize the importance of understanding the potential risks to the friendship while also acknowledging the possibility of mutual feelings.
- ▪The advice columnists recommend subtly indicating changing feelings rather than making a grand declaration.
- ▪They highlight the importance of assessing the friend's response to gauge their feelings.
- ▪The columnists acknowledge the risks involved in revealing deeper emotions but encourage taking the chance.
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Excuse My Advice Lifestyle How do I tell my best friend I’ve fallen in love with her? By Excuse My Advice Published May 26, 2026, 7:00 a.m. ET See more of our coverage in your search results. Add The New York Post on Google Gail Rudnick and Kim Murstein — the no-nonsense hosts of hit podcast series “Excuse My Grandma” — are The Post’s brand-new advice columnists. From family feuds to friendship fallouts, money, marriage and sex, there’s no topic too taboo to tackle, and the native New Yorkers will hash out each issue from their differing perspectives to tell the tough-love truth — and you’ll thank them for it. To get your questions answered, head to nypost.com/ema and drop them a note about what you need sorted.
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