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My Boyfriend and I Are Deeply in Love. But There’s a Big Part of His Life He’s Keeping From Me.

Jamilah Lemieux, Rumaan Alam· ·12 min read · 0 reactions · 0 comments · 38 views
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My Boyfriend and I Are Deeply in Love. But There’s a Big Part of His Life He’s Keeping From Me.
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A woman expresses concerns about her relationship with a divorced man who has a young daughter. Despite their deep love, she feels a significant part of his life is kept separate from her. The advice suggests that it's normal for single parents to take time before introducing new partners to their children.

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Canonical URLhttps://slate.com/advice/2026/05/parenting-advice-meet-the-daughter.html?via=rss
Publication timeTue, 26 May 2026 13:10:12 GMT
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Care and Feeding My Boyfriend and I Are Deeply in Love. But There’s a Big Part of His Life He’s Keeping From Me. Advice by Jamilah Lemieux and Rumaan Alam May 26, 20269:10 AM Photo illustration by Slate. Photos by GrashAlex/iStock/Getty Images Plus and Kiuikson/iStock/ Getty Images Plus. Copy Link Share Share Comment Copy Link Share Share Comment Our advice columnists have heard it all over the years—so today we’re diving into the archives of Care and Feeding to share classic parenting letters with our readers. Have a question for Care and Feeding? Submit it here. Dear Care and Feeding, A little over two months ago, I started dating a divorced man who has shared custody of his 4-year-old daughter.

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