The Kind of Thing That Turns Me on Would Be My Girlfriend’s Worst Nightmare. I’m Afraid She’ll Find Out.
A man is concerned about revealing his BBW and feedism fetishes to his girlfriend, who has a history of self-esteem issues related to weight. He enjoys cooking for her and fears that disclosing his interests might upset her. The advice suggests considering how to communicate these feelings without causing distress while also addressing the importance of honesty in their relationship.
- ▪The man has been in a relationship with a woman for over a year and feels she is the one for him.
- ▪He has a BBW fetish and is worried about how his girlfriend would react if she found out.
- ▪The girlfriend has struggled with self-esteem and food issues stemming from her upbringing.
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| Original publisher | Slate Magazine |
| Canonical URL | https://slate.com/advice/2026/05/sex-advice-turn-on-girlfriend.html?via=rss |
| Publication time | Wed, 27 May 2026 16:30:00 GMT |
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How to Do It The Kind of Thing That Turns Me on Would Be My Girlfriend’s Worst Nightmare. I’m Afraid She’ll Find Out. Advice by Jessica Stoya May 27, 202612:30 PM Photo illustration by Slate. Photo by feedough/Getty Images Plus. Copy Link Share Share Comment Copy Link Share Share Comment How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Stoya and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It, I’m a 30-year-old man in a relationship with a 26-year-old cis-woman who I feel like is the one. She came out of left field for me. We come from different backgrounds and different interests, but we really hit it off.
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